Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is an evidence-based trauma therapy designed to help your brain heal from distressing experiences.

Through guided bilateral stimulation (like eye movements, sounds, or tapping), EMDR helps you process painful memories, release emotional blocks, and restore your sense of safety and control.

It’s not about talking in circles or rehashing every detail; it’s about helping your nervous system and brain finally reprocess what happened, so it no longer feels like it’s happening now.

Absolutely. EMDR can be a powerful tool for healing after a breakup.

Breakups often activate old attachment wounds and feelings of abandonment or rejection that go far beyond the current relationship. EMDR helps you process both the pain of this breakup and any earlier experiences that made it hit so deeply.

By helping your brain reprocess those emotional memories, EMDR allows you to move through grief, release lingering emotional ties, and reconnect with your sense of worth and self-trust.

Many clients describe EMDR as the turning point after a breakup, when they stop replaying the past and start feeling ready for the kind of healthy, secure love they truly deserve.

Yes. EMDR therapy can be incredibly effective for dating anxiety.

If you feel triggered by texting, ghosting, rejection, or fears of being “too much” or “not enough,” EMDR helps you get to the root of those reactions, the moments in your past that taught your nervous system that love isn’t safe.

Through reprocessing those experiences, EMDR helps your brain and body separate the past from the present so you can approach dating from a calm, grounded place rather than survival mode.

You’ll begin to notice more confidence, self-trust, and ease when meeting new people, and a deeper ability to recognize and attract emotionally available partners.

Yes. EMDR therapy can be highly effective when done virtually.

Using secure telehealth platforms and guided bilateral stimulation tools (like alternating tones, visuals, or tapping), we can replicate the same neurological processes used in in-person sessions.

In fact, many clients find virtual EMDR even more comfortable; being in their own space can help them feel grounded and safe during emotionally charged moments.

Whether you’re working through anxiety, trauma, or past relationship wounds, EMDR delivered online allows you to experience deep healing and nervous system regulation from wherever you are.

If you’re based in New York or Florida, I offer virtual EMDR sessions so you can receive consistent support and continue your healing process without the stress of commuting.

The length of EMDR therapy depends on your history, goals, and the kind of healing you’re seeking.

Some clients notice meaningful relief after just a few sessions, while others, especially those processing long-term trauma or deep-rooted relationship patterns—benefit from a longer course of work.

In our first few sessions, we’ll focus on building safety, stability, and trust before moving into active EMDR reprocessing. Once you feel ready, we’ll gently target the experiences or beliefs that have been keeping you stuck and guide your brain toward adaptive healing.

Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR therapy can create noticeable emotional shifts relatively quickly, because it works directly with your nervous system and memory processing centers. The goal isn’t to rush your healing, it’s to help your mind and body integrate past experiences at a pace that feels grounded and empowering.

Each EMDR session is structured, supportive, and focused on your sense of safety.

We’ll begin with grounding techniques and check in about your current stress level so your nervous system feels regulated and prepared. Together, we’ll identify the experiences or beliefs that keep showing up—like “I’m not enough,” “I can’t trust people,” or “I’ll always be abandoned.”

Using gentle bilateral stimulation (eye movements, tones, or tapping), EMDR helps your brain reprocess those memories so they lose their emotional intensity. You’ll still remember what happened, but it will no longer feel charged or overwhelming.

Over time, you’ll start noticing more calm, clarity, and confidence in your daily life, relationships, and dating experiences. EMDR therapy allows you to respond from your present self rather than your past pain.