Dating therapy

Dating therapy and Dating coaching support for single Millennial and Gen Z women is designed to help you chill out, get confident, and trust yourself in the dating process so that you can find the love you want and keep the love you find.

If dating feels exhausting, confusing, or emotionally draining, you are not alone. Many single women come to therapy feeling anxious, burnt out, discouraged, or stuck in the same patterns, no matter how hard they try to do everything right.

This work blends the depth of therapy with the practical support many people associate with dating coaching, helping you build healthy, secure love from the inside out.

Book a free Call
Aerial view of the New York City skyline at sunset, featuring the Empire State Building and other skyscrapers.

Dating Therapy FAQ:

  • Dating therapy focuses specifically on how you show up in your romantic life, the patterns, beliefs, and emotions that shape who you’re drawn to and how you connect.
    While “regular therapy” may explore general mental health, dating therapy goes deeper into your attachment style, nervous system, boundaries, and communication in the context of love and connection.

    As a Dating therapist in NYC, I help you understand your patterns, calm your anxiety, and build the confidence to date from a grounded, secure place, so you can attract the kind of love that actually feels good.

  • Dating therapy helps you chill out, get confident, and trust the process of finding love without losing yourself in the chaos of it all.

    If you’ve ever caught yourself overthinking every text, wondering why you keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, or feeling like dating in NYC is a never-ending rollercoaster, you’re not alone. I’ve been there, and I get it.

    In Dating therapy, we work together to:
    • Understand your patterns so you can stop repeating what’s not working and start attracting healthy, secure connections.
    • Learn to calm your nervous system so you’re not dating from anxiety, fear, or scarcity.
    • Strengthen communication and boundaries, because healthy love feels safe, not confusing.
    • Get clear on your values and needs so you can date with intention and self-trust.
    • Shift your mindset from “Will anyone love me?” to “I know my worth and what I deserve.”

    Dating therapy isn’t about changing who you are; it’s about helping you come home to yourself so you can attract love that feels calm, mutual, and real.

  • Dating apps can feel like emotional whiplash, especially if you’re empathic, anxious, or craving real connection. Therapy helps you slow down, regulate your nervous system, and approach dating with clarity instead of burnout.

    We’ll explore your patterns, clarify your values, and build a dating mindset rooted in confidence, not comparison. You’ll learn how to stay grounded, trust your instincts, and enjoy getting to know someone without losing yourself in the process.

  • Sessions are collaborative, conversational, integrative, and customized to your needs, not clinical or “stiff.” We might explore past experiences, process emotions through mind-body techniques, or practice communication skills for real-life scenarios.

    You’ll leave each session with insight, grounding tools, and practical ways to show up differently in your relationships, both with yourself and others.

  • Dating therapy helps single women understand their relationship patterns, calm dating anxiety, and build confidence and clarity while dating. It is a supportive space to explore why dating feels stressful or confusing and how to create healthier, more aligned experiences.

  • Dating coaching focuses on strategy and behavior. Dating therapy goes deeper by addressing attachment styles, nervous system responses, past experiences, and emotional patterns. My work blends both. You receive emotional support, insight, and the practical guidance you need to date in a grounded and confident way.

  • Yes. This is one of the most common reasons clients seek Dating therapy. Together, we explore why these patterns show up, what they are protecting you from, and how to build healthier, more secure connections with emotionally available partners.

  • Yes. Dating anxiety often shows up as worrying about what someone thinks, replaying conversations, or feeling attached too quickly. Therapy helps you regulate your nervous system, understand your emotional triggers, and date from a calmer and more empowered place.

  • Absolutely. Dating burnout happens when dating feels like a job instead of an experience. Dating therapy helps you reconnect with yourself, clarify what you want, and approach dating with more intention and less pressure.

  • Yes. Many women prefer virtual therapy because it allows them to show up authentically and comfortably. Sessions are secure, private, and flexible, and clients often find virtual therapy just as effective as in-person work.

Two people holding hands outdoors near a lake with a tree in the background.

Hey, I’m Rebecca!

I specialize in Dating therapy for single Millennial and Gen Z women who want to feel calmer, more confident, and more grounded while dating, and who want to stop repeating relationships that don’t meet their needs. I have witnessed remarkable transformations in Dating therapy clients in as little as two sessions, especially once we identify the pattern and begin working with the nervous system.

For over a decade, I’ve helped women break toxic patterns, understand their attachment styles, heal their nervous systems, and build relationships that truly feel good. I grew up on Disney movies, romantic comedies, and TV sitcoms, which led me to believe that love was supposed to be intoxicating but also easy. But like many women, I learned the hard way that dating…especially in NYC, can feel overwhelming, confusing, and emotionally draining. This is why I’m so passionate about helping single Millennial and Gen Z women across New York and Florida, including clients on the Upper East Side of Manhattan, attract and keep emotionally secure, attached love.

Book a free no-pressure 15 minute call!

Featured in…

If you’re ready to stop second-guessing and start showing up as your authentic, grounded self, Dating therapy can help you get there.

If you’re already in a relationship and looking to improve communication, connection, or emotional safety, you can learn more about Relationship therapy here.

Book a free 15 minute call